China Day 4 – Together at Last!

Together at last!

It’s been a wonderful and emotional two days! It began Monday morning when we left our hotel at 5am to head to the airport for our 2 1/2 hour flight south to Nanchang city in Jiangxi Province. After exiting the airport we met our second guide, Meggy (I’m sure that’s her “American” name! I doubt I could pronounce her real name:) )

Shortly after we got on the bus she told us (our family and another family traveling with us) that we were going to meet our daughters at 11:30 at our hotel. After our arrival we would have about 20 minutes to get checked into our room and then our babies would arrive! Imagine the excitement! We thought it would be in the late afternoon!

We hurriedly checked into our room and got our cameras ready for the big moment! The plan was for Stephen to take pictures, Matthew to take video, Christine to hold RaeAn and I would interview the Orphanage Director with our list of 26 questions about RaeAn before he left!

Although we’ve been planning and waiting for this day for over five years, nothing could truly prepare us for the emotions of this wonderful moment as they put RaeAn into our arms for the first time! It’s real! We are finally together!

After the Director left, we jumped right into filling out paperwork and signing all kinds of documents (while we ate Papa John’s Pepperoni Pizza!). An hour after we had RaeAn we were off to the Center for Adoptions in Nanchang to finalize her adoption certificate, take her passport photo and be interviewed by their Director. Then we headed to the notary office to have our statements taken and signatures notarized. Then to the police station where they took a picture of RaeAn for a police report. Finally back to our hotel for a delicious meal before heading to bed. (RaeAn went to sleep at 8pm and didn’t wake up until 7am! I on the other hand, I went to sleep at 9pm and woke up at 11:30pm and didn’t go back to sleep until 4am! Just too wound up with emotion!)

One of our prayers for the past five years was that RaeAn would be put in foster care and not have to stay in the orphanage. We found out from the Orphanage Director that after she was found she spent a total of three days in the orphanage and was then given to her foster mother. She was with her foster mother until the very morning they gave her to us. In fact, Monday morning they picked her up from her foster mother and drove 3 and 1/2 hours straight to Nanchang to meet us.

We are so thankful for the wonderful and loving care that she was given until we could care for her ourselves. Leaving her foster mother though was and still is very difficult. The Director said she cried the entire three hours it took to bring her to us. Even now (yesterday and today) she will suddenly get a panic look on her face and begin crying… calling ‘mama, mama, mama’ while looking around the room. Whenever the door to our hotel room opens, she’ll look as if she’s hoping her foster mother will come in and rescue her from this strange family! Tears fill our eyes as we see her grieving for the loss of her foster mother. We are so thankful for her tender love and care for RaeAn! Knowing that RaeAn is missing her so also breaks our hearts…

Today was a great day though and she is taking to us more and more. She’s going through cycles of emotion… playing happily with the boys, crying for her ‘mama, mama’ then smiling and reaching for Christine, then crying because she’s hungry, enjoying milk, formula and apple juice, then sleeping because she’s exhausted, then crying for her ‘mama, mama’, then sleeping, then playing. That’s pretty much been our last two days.

Today (Tuesday) we went to Wal-Mart to buy what one of our guides called, “The Baby Stuff”. We just love that phrase and can’t stop saying it! Meggy had to help us shop because even with pictures, we couldn’t figure out what some of the things are that we needed!

Following Wal-Mart we enjoyed a nice time at a beautiful park. It was fun to walk around and just enjoy being together as a family. The boys got to run, jump and get some pent up energy out too!

We will be here in Nanchang until Friday while we wait for RaeAn’s Chinese passport to be processed. Friday night we’ll head to Guangzhou where next week we will process her US IR3 Visa.

I’ve posted over 40 pictures from the last two days for you to enjoy. I have some great video too but haven’t edited it or compressed it enough to upload to the net yet. Enjoy the photos while you wait!

Many thanks for all of your prayers… God is blessing us so much… I have more to tell you about RaeAn, her background and other answered prayers about her life, but those will have to come another day… Know that every single prayer we have prayed for her care, etc. has been answered… So thankful, even as we all go through the emotions of bonding as a family.

China Adoption Update: Headed to China!

In our last post we said,

There are two possible dates for when we would be able to travel to pick up our baby girl: September 15 or October 28. Obviously, we prefer the date in September!

In order for that to happen though we need two small miracles:) First, we need to receive travel approval from China by the end of August. Second, there needs to be an available appointment for us at the US Embassy in Guangzhou the last week in September. To get to travel that quickly would be “icing on the cake!” So, LET’S PRAY FOR ICING!

If you pray for icing, go ahead and get your cake ready! Both miracles happened and we are excited to announce that we are headed to China on September 15th and our US Embassy appointment is September 26th! AWESOME!!!!!!

If our understanding of our schedule is correct then we will get to meet our daughter on Monday, September 19, two weeks from today. This is also Matthew’s 11th Birthday! What an awesome birthday present:)

We thank you for praying for us, for miracles, for paperwork, for logistics. God is listening and answering. We waited and prayed for so long and now the answers are flooding in!

Our tickets are purchased, hotel reservations made and China visas stamped in our passports! It’s true! It’s real! We’re headed to China!

You can imagine the range of emotions we are experiencing… Rush, rush, rush to get ready to leave. Long “to-do” lists that never seem to finish. Excitement that we are actually getting a daughter. Nervousness about the trip, logistics, and change in our family. Uncertainty as to how to file certain kinds of paperwork. Dazed by the reality that we are leaving in less than two weeks! Prayerful that everything will go just as planned!

Last Friday was a difficult day as we found out about more “unknown and uncertain” USCIS paperwork. It’s confusing even to us! Since we live overseas, the US does not recognize us as “US Residents”. In a normal adoption case, when the US family returned home, the USCIS would automatically process a Certificate of Citizenship (CoC) for their adopted child.

No so for us! We have to file a special USCIS form called a N600K to apply for our daughter’s Certificate of Citizenship.

There is great confusion as to whether or not we can get a US Passport for our daughter without this certificate. Some say we must have it. Some say we don’t need it. The USCIS and State Department seem to disagree on this matter. The State Department will issue a US Passport without the CoC, but the USCIS doesn’t like that and wants the child to have a CoC before they apply and receive a US Passport. This whole process, it is rumored, can take from 2-6 months to complete. We need to have a US Passport for our daughter before we return to Rwanda. If we get the passport before the CoC then the USCIS may (as they have done in the past) deny her a CoC. Confused yet! Obviously, we don’t want to hang out in the States of six months!

The solution that many Americans adopting while living abroad have taken is to first enter the US via Honolulu. The USCIS office in Honolulu has, as a service and courtesy to US Citizens adopting while living abroad, processed the adopted child’s CoC in just three days under these conditions:

  • Honolulu is their first port of entry into the US
  • Appropriate appointments are made ahead of time
  • Necessary forms are filed and paid for
  • Proof of citizenship is provided
  • Proof if provided that the parent has lived in the US for at least five years, two years after the age of 14.

As well, in Honolulu, once the CoC is granted, the State Department office there can issue her a passport in just two days.

Thus, our plan fly from China directly to Honolulu to get our daughter’s CoC and US Passport in a matter of days. This is the easiest and best option for our family which will enable us to return to Rwanda quickly.

Friday though, we received a shock!

The USCIS office in Honolulu wrote us (after we had written them of our plans to arrive on September 29th) and told us that their office will be closed and no appointments will be available until October 11th. FURTHERMORE, during this time their office will be conducting an audit AND the procedure for CoC applications may change.

The office was very gracious to us and said that they hoped we would not be affected by the changes! Can you imagine the panic! Christine just happened to look at me as I was reading the email and asked, “What are you doing?” The shock was evident on my face!

So, here is our next prayer request for you:

Pray that our daughter’s Certificate of Citizenship and US Passport can both be processed in Honolulu at the USCIS and State Department Offices as planned. Pray that any possible changes in the USCIS CoC processing WILL NOT EFFECT US and that our dauther’s CoC  and US Passport can be processed under the current system!

We prayed for icing before and God listened and answered. Now we are praying for whipped cream and a cherry on top! May all glory and honor go to Him for He is a Good God who listens to the prayers of His people and answers them in His faithfulness out of His abundance!

 

China Adoption Referral: It’s a Girl!

We are very excited to announce the arrival of our China Adoption Referral! (Send me an email and I’ll send you a picture.) She’s seven and a half months old! We are still working on names and will let you know as soon as we decide. She will always be Precious though!

We received “The Call” from our case worker in the States on July 27th while we were at a family encampment for Rwandan Missionaries.

We all prayed specifically that our USCIS paperwork would be completed “before” we received a referral from China and it was! Six dates before to be exact! Wow, isn’t God’s timing awesome!

We received her official file from China four days after the phone call, signed the letter accepting our referral and sent it back to the States. Now our agency will forward our acceptance to China and then they will give us “Travel Approval” which will allow us to obtain China Visas and get an appointment with the US Consulate in Guangzhou, China. Once we have those two items, we can buy our tickets!

There are two possible dates for when we would be able to travel to pick up our baby girl: September 15 or October 28. Obviously, we prefer the date in September!

In order for that to happen though we need two small miracles:) First, we need to receive travel approval from China by the end of August. Second, there needs to be an available appointment for us at the US Embassy in Guangzhou the last week in September. To get to travel that quickly would be “icing on the cake!” So, LET’S PRAY FOR ICING!

We are so thankful to all of you for your faithful prayers all these years! This story is a story of prayer, faith, persistence, patience and mercy!

China Adoption Update: Approved!!!

They say a picture paints a thousand words. This one says it all!

We received an email from the USCIS Nairobi office yesterday that our I-600a Petition to bring a foreign born orphan into the US was approved and our I-171h was attached as a pdf!

Specific prayers were answered and we are praising and thanking the Lord!

As well, there’s a rumor on China Adopt Talk saying that the matching process, where orphans are matched with waiting families, could begin next week. Meaning, if they cover six days of LIDs then they’ll be matching us with our daughter within the next ten days! How exciting is that???

Thank you for praying us through this process up until now. Let us continue on in prayer until we can bring our daughter safely home!

Disciple Maker Kabeza

One of our daily prayers in Rwanda is that God would raise up more disciple makers (Luke 10:2b). We praise God for answering this prayer over and over. Here is a story about Ejide, a young man who came to Charles Kabeza (ATN‘s Director) asking to be mentored! Pray for Charles, that he would disciple Ejide to follow Jesus. Pray for Ejide as he seeks to be discipled by a Godly man.

Note from Charles Kabeza

Murphy,

I wanted to share with you a new opportunity that God has put in my way.

Last week I got a call from one young man who is a student at SFB (School of Finance and Banking). This young man is involved in the Xtra Mile Community in Nyamata.

When I met him he told me that he is involved in a Compassion International Program. That program advices them to have a mentor. From our conversation he told me that he has observed what kind of person he may learn from and he found that Karoli (Charles in Kinyarwanda) is the model person for mentoring.

His request is more than what compassion asks them to do but he wants to learn all aspects of life including spiritual.

For now I do not know well his commitment to Jesus but I will. So I wanted to share with you this as my intimate partner to promote DMM.

Please pray for me so that I can be really a good model not only a Christian by name.

Find the picture of Ejide and Kabeza.

Blessings,

Charles Kabeza

China Adoption Update – So Close!

One of our mentors and long-time friends encouraged us to focus on what “we know” and not let our minds wonder and speculate about what we don’t know. This encouragement has been very helpful and increased our confidence that this is going to work out and that God’s timing is going to be just perfect!

So, here’s what we know:

  • God has blessed our paperwork processing for over five years now. Beginning with the initial home study all the way through our last I-171h renewal. He has opened doors, providing us with contacts, brought people to our aide, given us wisdom and provided all the funds that we needed every step of the way.
  • We have been approved by the USCIS to adopt three times already (2006, 2008 and 2009).
  • We have been approved by the China Government to adopt.
  • Our FBI fingerprints have been taken and processed successfully four times.
  • God miraculously returned all of our adoption paperwork when it was left in a taxi in 2006.
  • The Kigali Embassy, USCIS Accra and Nairobi staff have been helpful and kind all along the way.
  • God has given us the patience and strength to wait for over five years.
  • We are within 2-3 months of receiving a referral from China and could possibly travel to China this fall.
  • China has referred children to families with LIDs through June 30, 2006. We are just 12 LID days away from receiving a referral. See our adoption page for an explanation of LIDs
  • In May of this year China referred 10 day’s worth of LIDs (June 21-30). This many LIDs have not been processed in over five years! If they continue this trend and refer another 10 days of LIDs in June then that would put them through July 10th. Again, our LID is July 12th which means we could possibly have a referal from China in July!
  • God has brought us this far and will carry us the rest of the way! We are so close!

Here’s the current situation:

  • Our third I-171h (approval from the USCIS to adopt a foreign born orphan) is expiring and we need to renew it. (We submit an I-600A application and if it’s approved then we receive an I-171h.)
  • When our 2nd I-171h expired we had moved to Rwanda and fell under the jurisdiction of the USCIS Nairobi Office (We were under the jurisdiction of the Accra, Ghana office while we were living in Togo.)
  • In 2009, when we asked the Nairobi office about our application to renew our paperwork, they told us that we had to submit our application with the office that initially processed our file. So, we mailed our updated police reports, home study, etc. to Accra, Ghana and they processed and renewed our I-171h.
  • In 2011, as our 3rd I-171h was about to expire, we sent our application back to the USCIS office in Accra.
  • After reviewing our paper work (they received it on March 15) they determined that we needed to file this application with the USCIS office in Nairobi and that they were sending our paperwork back to us. It arrived this past Monday, May 30th (2 1/2 months after they received it). I do not know why it took so long to make this determination, but it did. They did apologize for the omission and forwarded the email explanation on to the USCIS office in Nairobi.
  • After receiving the paperwork Monday (May 30), we quickly wrote new cover letters and reorganized the updated application documents and sent them to the USCIS Nairobi (Kenya) office yesterday (May 31st, Stephen’s Birthday) via FedEx. We took the picture above after we prayed over the paperwork and just before we headed to the FedEx office.
  • Now we must wait for the Nairobi office to process our paperwork. We have not had any contact with them by phone or email thus far. The Accra office was very good about communicating with us via email. We hope and pray that this will be the same for us with the Nairobi office.

Specific Prayer Requests:

  • That the person in charge at the USCIS Nairobi office would have our paperwork on his/her desk by this Friday June 3rd.
  • That the USCIS Nairobi office would communicate with us promptly via email or phone.
  • That God would grant us favor with the USCIS officials and staff so that our I-600A adoption application can be processed with expediency without complication.
  • That the officials would review our 4th I-600A application and updated paperwork by June 15th.
  • That the USCIS would approve our application, granting us a 4th and final I-171h.
  • That we would receive our I-171h before we receive a referral from China (This would be icing on the cake!).
  • That God would bless mine and Christine’s “nerves” as this is mentally and emotionally stressful!

We made double, triple, quadruple sure that all of our paperwork was in order. We had our FBI fingerprints taken and submitted months ago so they should have been cleared by now. We have paid all of our fees. Now, we just need the grace from the USCIS Nairobi office to process the application and grant us another I-171h! Pray that it is done in time so that we have approval in hand before our referral comes from China!!!

God has been and will continue to be faithful in answering our prayers. Let us remain steadfast on our knees until the very end. As Stephen put it last night in his prayer, “God, we can’t do this without You!”

Update on Anna Wolfe

Answered Prayers!

Since the accident last July, many of you have been praying for my niece, Anna Wolfe, and my father, Marvin Crowson. To honor God for answering these prayers, I wanted to write you to let you know that both my father and Anna are doing great! Doctors have announced them healed!!! We cannot thank you enough for your prayers. God listened and answered. Below is a more detailed report about Anna from my sister, Georgia Wolfe. Anna is pictured standing straight up on the left with blue sleeves and a big smile!

March 11, 2011 Update on Anna

Anna as far as we can tell is doing wonderfully! Dr. Grabb the Neuro Dr. just called this week to schedule more ex-rays and another appt so we’ll see how her spine is doing by April. She’s had a growth spurt and that’s good so we’ll see the effect on her vertebrae. we’ll let you know when we know more.

The remaining effects of the accident at this point are just dreams from time to time when she’s exhausted or sick. She also appears to now have an issue with migraine headaches (where she feels sick to her stomach and her head hurts really bad). We’ve been keeping a headache journal to figure out the triggers of those. At first she was having these a couple of times a week and I thought it was a bug or virus so we made a Dr. appt. and they helped us figure out what was going on we’ve taken steps to make sure keep her rested and hydrated. Now we see them just once or twice a month. Physically Anna can ride a bike, run, and play as hard as any other kiddoe her age. She’s picked up reading wonderfully this year and has become a very amusing story writer and illustrator.

Emotionally and Spiritually she is doing much better too. Compassion Intl. offers free family counseling and a young lady named Erin has been wonderful with helping Anna process and communicate through all of this. Anna talks about the accident now, thanks God for protecting her and healing her. She is not bothered by her scars, hair has grown back to cover the three bald spots on her head, she asks questions about what happened and allows others to talk about it in front of her now, and she re-plays what she remembers with her dolls and younger siblings. I frequently walk by the door and hear Nicole and Benjamin calling to Aunt CC to drive on the grass again while Anna has her doll on the bed with her leg up on a pillow and blood pressure cuff and oxygen mask on. Daniel does not enjoy talking about it or the images and noises in his head so we continue to give him space and pray for his own healing. One important transition in Anna’s faith is that she understands now that God did not make the accident happen but that this is a part of her story to testify to His healing power and mercy in our lives. She knows that God loves her and we have watched her own love for the Lord strengthen and grow in a special intimate way in the past months.

*g.w.

March 29, 2011 Update on Anna

[Today] … was a great appt. Anna does not have to return to the Neuro surgeon and is released. Her back looks really good. Her vertebrae are slightly skinnier but it should not cause any problems, perhaps just a few millimeters shorter :0)

If we ever see any extremes in her like numbness, tingling, pain, hunching over etc we can refer back to him but he does not suspect any problems. Her back looks GREAT! He wanted pictures of the accident for his own record of what she had come through too :0) FOR YOUR GLORY LORD!!!

Her headaches should keep on lessoning and if they don’t we go through our ped. Dr. and refer to a neurologist for stronger medication. The best thing to do there is just to keep treating them as they occur and monitor a bit longer. If after a year they are not gone we are to go to the next step.

Anna is free to ski, roller skate and do anything with parental approval :0) She’s so happy and it was fun to skip out of the office with her.

What a merciful God! thank you loving family for holding us up in prayer. We love you all so much!

*g.w.

AGAIN, OUR FAMILY IS SO GRATEFUL FOR YOUR PRAYERS!!! GOD LISTENED AND ANSWERED!!! PRAISE BE TO THE LORD, GOD IN HEAVEN WHO HEARS THE PRAYERS OF HIS SAINTS AND ANSWERS US WHEN WE CRY OUT TO HIM!!!

Praying for Gisenyi Disciple Makers

Praying for Rwandan Disciple Makers!

Charles Kabeza recently visited Gisenyi, Rwanda to follow up on three disciple makers who are actively involved in starting and leading Discovery Bible Studies. Here is his report… As you read, pray for Innocent, Vedaste and Christine, that the Lord would fill them with the Spirit of Truth and Power as well as wisdom as they make disciples of Jesus. Vedaste and Christine are pictured above…

Vedaste

We had planed to meet  at a college where he introduced the DBS. I met him there and I happened to meet a couple of others who are in that team, unfortunately many of them are still in holidays. But with small number I noticed that their meetings are about reading and studying bible (Vedaste introduced to them the DBS model for studying the Bible).

Christine

Since a couple of days ago, she has been in fasting prayers, so I managed to meet her this morning. My idea was for her to meet with Vedaste and let them know each other. This morning we were so blessed to have a DBS together and remind each other what God is doing in our lives. Christine gave us her testimony how she got to know Jesus and how she commit to serve him. At the end I asked them both to work as a team that is focusing on making Jesus disciples more than promoting this religion than that other.

Innocent

Yesterday I met him, and our conversation was about the progress of putting into practice what he learned in the last DMM (Disciple Making Movements) workshop. He is still confronting with his church leaders who think that his mind is to start a new denomination, yet his desire is about making the youth into a real disciples of Jesus. Though he still invite the youth for soccer every sunday morning and through that soccer some young people changed and get baptized.

I tried to encourage him and let him know that we pray for him. Finally, I asked him to join our team to Sudan and he said that he is interested to that opportunity.

A Blessed Family Trip to Togo

Thank you for praying for our family trip to Togo last week. The Lord heard your prayers and blessed us with a challenging but encouraging visit. The challenging part was sickness as Stephen had fever with vomiting during both flights to Lomé. After a day of rest in Lomé though he was better. Christine came down with the same virus on Wednesday but persevered through it and we all made it to the end exhausted but healthy!

The picture above is our family with Christians from the Batoé church. Our time in Togo was so special, and yet so short! We met with and greeted Christians from eleven different churches and still didn’t get to see even half of everyone that we wanted to! Nevertheless, we were encouraged to see faith stirring in people’s hearts as they live their lives in service to their Creator. God is alive and working among the Watchi and our prayers of many years are still being answered. Praise God for His faithfulness!

Da Emily: Da Emily, pictured above with our family, was the house worker at the teacher house (after she worked for the Bunners for several years). Since our departure she’s been working in an orphanage taking care of 22 boys! Her faith was strong and she is doing well.

As well, we had traditional “fufu” with Papa Kofi and Da Adjo. Kofi is one of the elders in the Tabligbo Church. They are doing well and were surprised to see us!

Fo Yao: We were also able to visit Fo Yao (pictured above). He was our house worker all of the seven years we were in Togo and was Matthew’s best Togolese buddy! The boys prayed over him at his house. His son, Moses (pictured left of Matthew) is getting to be a big boy. It was good to see Yao doing well. This was one of the trip highlights for Matthew!

Photo and Video Gallery {Pictures and Video from our Trip}

 

Sedomé/Batoé Church and Denni Situation

Sedomé Church: When a leader falls, it brings shame and discouragement to the Christians. This is certainly the case in Sedomé. The shame and discouragement was so great that many refused to come to worship for weeks after the whole thing blew up! Others in the village hurled insults and ridicule at them and their shame and embarrassment was great! Even in spite of the challenges the Christians were facing, I found them strong and encouraged. Most, if not all of the Christians have returned. In fact, one man told me that there’s a small revival taking place as those who used to be luke-warm are taking their faith more seriously! Pictured above is Akossiwano giving a testimony during worship of how God blessed the birth of her seventh child! We praise God who is turning a terrible situation into a blessing! Only He can do that!

Report on Denni: Thank you for praying for the difficult situation with Denni. The Lord answered your prayers and we experienced some amazing things. (Pictured above are the boys and myself after the meeting with Denni just before a yummy lunch of beans, dried cassava and oil. The woman smiling is Denni’s wife, faithful to Jesus even in spite of her husband’s sin!).

First, I didn’t even expect Denni to be in Sedomé the weekend that we were planning to visit. Normally, if someone knows that a “confrontation” is coming they would make themselves scarce. So when Denni showed up at church during my lesson Sunday morning, I was surprised!

The lesson I planned aimed at accomplishing two goals: Confronting him publicly/directly about his sin as well as encouraging the faithful Christians that the way of the righteous will stand forever while the way of the wicked will perish. Again, to my surprise, Denni stayed through the entire lesson (I expected him to get up and walk out).

After worship the men were asked to stay to discuss something important. Again, I expected him to leave, but he stayed. For the next three hours we had a huge discussion concerning his actions, sin and consequences not only for himself but also for his family and the faithful Christians in the Sedomé church. The Holy Spirit moved all of the leaders to share, confront and even offer forgiveness. Everything that I could have ever dreamed or prayed to be said was said. No stone was left unturned.

Rather than argue or point his finger back at the other men, Denni sat quietly with shame written on his face and listened to every word. Towards the end I could see tears dropping on his forearms and then his hands began to shake. I felt moved to pray so I got down on my knees, looked him in the eye, told him I loved him, and then prayed that God would give him the strength to repent and return to Jesus. He sobbed for more than 20 minutes as we prayed.

The day could not have been planned more perfectly. The words could not have been articulated more powerfully. The leaders could not have been more unified. Denni’s heart could not have been more broken. Mighty prayers were answered.

Denni left with his head hung low and then we had a meal with the rest of the Sedomé men and leaders. Whether Denni will repent and restore fellowship with Jesus and the church is left to be determined. I pray that God will give him the strength to do just that. Even if he doesn’t though, the Word of God was victorious as the men and women of the church held fast in obeying Jesus’ words in Matt. 18:17 to have the church as a whole confront him and make his choices clear. I saw courage and determination in the hearts and faces of the rest of the Christians there to stand up for what is right and to say the things they had to say no matter how difficult or complicated the situation.

Thank you again for your prayers. God listened and He answered. Let us continue on in prayer for Denni, that he would find his way again!

Night in Batoé: After our time in Sedomé, we drove to Batoé, a village located by the Mono River to spend the evening/night with them. They had swept, cleaned and prepared a whole private compound just for us, complete with our own private bathing area, bathroom and courtyard! It was soooo hot, we slept outside under mosquito nets (pictured above). They were prepared for us to stay for more than three days and were disappointed when we said we would only be there two days and one night:( This was the boys first night to stay in the village like this. Afterwards, Stephen commented that “life in Africa is hard”.

Our time was spent “listening and counseling” Christians and Leaders as they came one by one and in groups to update us on how they are doing. One woman, Doneno, especially needs our prayers. Her husband (a lifetime alcoholic) had a fight with the church leader’s mother in January. During their “spat” the women called out to the “gods” in desperation (the woman denies that she did this). A few days later he became very ill. As he grew sicker and sicker, he began telling everyone that this woman had put a curse on him and that’s why he was sick and dying. His last conversations were filled with these accusations. After five days of sickness, he passed away. The accused woman fled the village in fear that she would be harmed or killed (what they often do to people accused of sorcery). The woman returned a few weeks before our visit and the whole village and Christians are afraid of her. In fact, when she came to worship on Sunday, the rest of the Christians refused to come. Finally, the woman’s son, the leader of the church there, confronted his mother and told her to stop coming to church. Now the Christians are worshiping together again.

Doneno, a Christian, came to me discouraged, frustrated, angry and in need. Her husband is gone and she’s left to take care of the six children on her own. Also, it’s important to know that these women (Doneno and the accused church leader’s mother) live within 100 feet of each other and see each other everyday. The situation is very sad because there’s no way to know the real truth. As the man passed away, he left his own curse on the church and village with his accusations… words that can’t be confirmed as truth or denied as lies.

No matter what the true is, the answer is for Doneno (and the rest of the village) to forgive, love and pray for their enemies.

While I spent time listening and counseling Christians in Batoé, Christine walked three miles with Christian ladies from Batoé to visit the Agodeke Christians (with temperatures in the low 100′s)! Since our departure the men and would-be leaders in this church have either died of sickness, left the church or left the village. There are 12 women however who are still faithful to Jesus. One of the women knows how to read. So on Sundays, they all come together to sing, pray and the reader will read from the Bible. They’ve been doing this on their own for over a year now. What faithfulness! They were encouraged by Christine’s visit (as was Christine)!

Adangbe, Literacy and the Ag Mission Farm

Kpotonou: On Tuesday, we visited the Kpotonou Christians in Adangbe. I was encouraged to hear that Dzo and Massan (pictured above at their home) had started a new church that meets in the school house close to their village. Three people were baptized last year, one of them being a voodoosi (wife of a voodoo idol/spirit). Dzo and Mawuko, the other church leader in Kpotonou, have never gotten along really well and I think that’s what prompted the beginning of a new church. A Barnabas/Paul type situation where the men went their separate ways. It’s not my favorite way to begin a new church, but nevertheless, new people are coming into the Kingdom. We found the Christians in Kpotonou unified and encouraged.

Evé Literacy: Earlier this year, Minen, the wife of Laté our Agricultural Missionary among the Watchi, began a literacy class with Christian women in Adangbe. Literacy has been a huge issue, especially among women, and is a huge need in the Churches. Christine was able to attend one of the classes (pictured above) as a dozen or so women gathered together to learn how to read. One thing we are super excited about is that Minen is using the same literacy materials in Evé that we are using in English and Kinyarwanda in Rwanda! The literacy teaching process was developed by Literacy International and then their staff worked in the local languages to put together the primers for teaching. In fact, this past week, Christine had her first Kinyarwanda Literacy lesson with a Rwandan woman who wants to be able to read her Bible. The lessons and process are the same, no matter what language they are using! Exciting!

While Christine attended the literacy class, I met with church leaders from three churches in Adangbe. Some are content with the way things are and aren’t really looking to grow or make disciples. Others are frustrated by their failed efforts to plant new churches and stopped trying in their discouragement. Still others are working even now in four different villages to make disciples and bring families to faith. We talked for three hours about the need to keep trying even though past experiences have been challenging and unsuccessful. Sometimes, they need to change their methods. Other times, they just need to keep trying, washing the dust off their feet in unreceptive villages while praying for and seeking people and villages of peace who are seeking God. I pray that they will not give up, but continue to do the work of evangelism and church planting, as it is our Lord’s command to continue to make disciples. My words during this trip were much more challenging than ever before. So much so, that some are probably wondering if this is the same Murphy who worked with them before!

Ag Mission Farm: One of the highlights of my visits back to Togo is always a visit to the Agricultural Mission Farm. When we left Togo two years ago, we took the money from the sale of our old Prado (may it rest in peace) and bought 40 acres of land to begin a mission farm. Since that time Laté and a team of other workers (Yohaness, Emmanuel and Kossi are pictured above working with the Mission Farm’s 2-wheel tractor) have been clearing, plowing and planting season after season. The main goals of the mission farm include providing a place where Watchi farmers, church leaders and other Christians can come to “see” new agricultural techniques and crops that they can use and plant in their own farms to increase productivity of their land as well as generate more income for their families and churches. As well, another dream is for the farm to produce income for ongoing and future development and ministry projects that the Lord will lead us to in the future. Funds for Watchi Development will be generated in Watchiland! 100% sustainability is our goal! Likewise, the Ag Ministry will provide us a ministry that we can use to serve others in new villages as we search for people and families of peace. We call this an “Access Ministry”.

One of the main crops on the mission farm is pineapple (of course!) Stephen and Matthew are pictured above with Yohaness each holding a 10 pound organic pineapple! Yummmmmmm, we ate them on the spot and they were delicious! We praise God for pineapples. This year the farm will have it’s first major harvest of pineapples and we are expecting 5-10 tons! As well, we are planting teak trees, corn, peanuts, cassava and have a plan to raise goats, chickens and plant tomatoes in the dry season. The farm currently needs a water well to do these last few projects. If you are interested in helping with that, let me know!

We praise God for the Agricultural Ministry and most especially for Laté and Minen Lawson (Laté is pictured left showing us two huge pineapples. Their hearts of service, integrity and passion to disciple others are constant sources of encouragement to us. We also praise God for the blessing that He has placed upon the farm as we see the land producing more that we expected. Many people are and will continue to be blessed through this ministry. Families are becoming economically stable. Jobs are being created. School fees are being paid. Access Ministries are being developed. A foundation for future development and ministry funding is being laid. Hope is replacing despair. All in the name of Jesus! Praise God!

Mama Gasaro – Part Two

After my visit with Mama Gasaro, the woman who lives across the valley from my house, I talked with some of the orphans in Extra Miles Ministry (a ministry to genocide orphans). Extra Miles started a benevolence committee that meets weekly to help vulnerable women. Mama Gasaro is one of many women who often go to ATN (our local non-profit organization) facilities on Saturday mornings for help and counseling. I asked if one of the orphans on the benevolence committee would accompany me to visit Mama Gasaro. It was decided that Gertrude would go with me. Gertrude is a genocide orphan in her mid-twenties. She attends a university here in Kigali. She is one of seven children in her family, however, her parents and all of her siblings were killed during the genocide.

Gertrude and I set off for the 1 hour walk to Mama Gasaro’s house. We had no way to tell her we were coming, she has no telephone, and I was not entirely certain I would remember the way. I did remember and Mama Gasaro was at home when we arrived. She was distressed because her baby was sick.

The baby has a heart problem and is often sick. We talked about her immediate needs to take care of the baby. Then I asked her if she had any ideas about what she could do to change her current situation. She told us that she wanted to study hairdressing. She had already researched and found a salon where she could study for three months. I asked Gertrude if she thought this was a good idea, she said yes. Gertrude told me that if Mama Gasaro knows hairdressing, she can find a job or perhaps even work out of her home. We prayed together, gave Mama Gasaro some money to take the baby to the doctor and made a plan to go together to the salon the next week.

During the week, I saw Mama Gasaro in my neighborhood. She was there to take the baby to a clinic. We talked for a while and I asked her if she would pray for the following two days. I asked her to ask God to give her an idea of how she could also help pay for the fees to study hairdressings. Her immediate reaction to this request was not positive. She said she had no way of helping. After she calmed, I told her just to ask God and see what happens.

Today Gertrude and I walked across the valley and met Mama Gasaro near the hair salon. Together we went and talked to the owner, a woman named Mama Fredy. Mama Fredy assured me that Mama Gasaro will be able to find a job or at least some clients after she finishes studying. I paid the fee and Mama Gasaro will start tomorrow. On our way back toward the valley, Mama Gasaro told us that she had prayed in the past two day. She told us that the idea God gave her is that after she finishes studying and finds a job, she is to help others. Praise God! I wanted to cry right there on the path. That is the kind of heart we are seeking. I have learned not to get excited early but to keep praying. Time will tell if Mama Gasaro will finish studying, find a job and help others. However, today I am encouraged and feel blessed that mine and Mama Gasaro’s paths have crossed.